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Post by Life is confusing on Aug 25, 2005 11:54:24 GMT
I met this guy about 3 months ago and I really really like him. I mean... I've liked other guys before but nothing like this. With other guys I tend to talk about them all the time and flirt a lot but with him it's different. I don't know what to say when he talks to me, just looking at him brings a smile to my face, I get butterflies whenever he's around and I don't want to tell anybody I like him because I kinda want him to be my own... my own little secret.
Am I in love or is this just another school-girl crush?
How do you know if it really is love?
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Post by sarah on Aug 25, 2005 14:44:44 GMT
I really highly doubt it's true let's get married and have kids love.
But just go for it and ask him out. You never know where the relationship can go.
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Post by Love confused on Aug 26, 2005 7:23:56 GMT
I know it's not going to be a matrimonial forever love.
I just don't know how to approach him. We've become good friends and even thinking about asking him out makes me tongue tied.
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Post by Jessie on Aug 26, 2005 7:59:13 GMT
Ive been like that, With only one guy. And ive thought and asked, The exact saem things that youve just wrote.
I still feel that way.
But with me, It will never be.
But i say, If you have the balls, Just do it.
Trust me, You wont regret it.
Unfortunitly, I never worked up the courage, And now i regret it.
Dont make the same mistake i made.
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Post by americanpsycho on Aug 26, 2005 16:48:08 GMT
Love is a risk..
I say go for it. I mean, the worst he can do is say no. And if that happens, your life will still go on as it does everyday. The advantage, you won't have to spend your whole life thinking what if's and wondering what if's is the worst thing there is.. "What if I did ask him. What if he really did like me." If you ask him, you'll know the answers to these questions.
And who knows, maybe one day it will turn into 'I-wanna-marry-you-and-have-kids' love. You'll just have to wait and see. In the meantime, ask him.
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Post by Lady Vengeance on Sept 3, 2005 2:04:36 GMT
get a friend to aks him and they can act like they r setting u 2 up on a double date thats how i got my man
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Post by aiden on Sept 17, 2005 14:43:41 GMT
i read a story once, about a girl and a boy who were in highschool. the boy liked this girl, a whole lot. he would walk her to classes and stand by her locker. they'd sit together at lunch, and talk. the girl liked this boy a whole lot, too. the boy never asked her to be his girlfriend, and they eventually lost connection after highschool. at their 10 year reunion, one of the girl's friends came up to the boy, looking slightly dissapointed. she said "why did you never call [name here]? she was waiting by the phone every night for you. she liked you a whole lot." the girl ended up getting married to another man.
the boy could have had the girl of his dreams, if only he had asked her.
the moral of this story: ask him, because he might as well feel the same way you do.
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Post by .Miss Jenn x ! on Sept 26, 2005 2:14:39 GMT
I was like that with this guy Joe. I told him that I liked him and now we're together and we love each other very much. Go for it <3
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Post by Chelsea on Sept 26, 2005 17:16:54 GMT
But on the other hand.... you could tell him and he will laugh in your face. Happened to me on more than one occasion.
But, you should tell him anyway. You never know
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